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Where is the excitement from the beginning?

Do you recognize that? The schedule is packed tight. Conversations are about who’s picking up the kids or what’s for dinner. And when you’re finally in bed at night, you’re too tired for real connection. Sex becomes an afterthought or a chore. You spend your lives as ‘managers’ of the family, drifting past each other. You miss the spark, the deep connection, the excitement of the beginning. You want to change, but you don’t know how to break the cycle.

Go exploring together!

Specially for you, we have developed the Intimitijd Love Weekend. Stop procrastinating and book a weekend for the two of you. But one where you don't have to sit in a circle with strangers to share your feelings. The Intimitijd Love Weekend is a private retreat.

We provide the complete program, the guides, and the inspiration. You provide the time and the attention.

  • ✅ Safe & Trusted: Simply in your own bedroom, a nice hotel, or a cottage in the woods.
  • ✅ Respectful: Based on the belief that God gave us sexuality to enjoy.
  • ✅ Exciting & Refreshing: Step out of your comfort zone in a way that suits you.

HOW DOES IT WORK?

Choose the right option when ordering:

  • A. Digital Download (available immediately)
  • B. Digital Download + 30-euro Gift Voucher (available immediately)
  • C. Printed Version Delivered (1–3 business days)
  • D. Printed Version Delivered (1–3 business days) + Gift Voucher (available immediately)

With the digital version, you can get started right away (ideal for a last-minute surprise!) and there are no shipping costs. You can easily read the guides on a tablet or laptop. Alternatively, you can print the pages yourself as you like.

With the printed version, the 3 guides will be delivered to your home.

1. GUIDE FOR BOTH OF YOU
This is your joint compass. It contains the schedules (including breaks!), the preparation, requirements, and all the joint exercises and tasks you will complete together. The guide also contains a lot of useful information, knowledge, and tips. You will learn many new things!

2. THE SECRET GUIDES FOR HIM AND HER
You will each receive your own secret guide ('For Him' & 'For Her'). It contains instructions that the other person must not know. This way, you can surprise each other during the weekend with something you have prepared entirely on your own. The "wow effect" is guaranteed.

3. YOUR OWN ROUTE
No pressure. For each intimate task, you choose yourself:

Safe & Connecting Route: This route focuses on slowing down, gentleness, and affirmation. The goal is not to push boundaries, but to hold each other close again and feel each other.

Surprising Route: This route is more playful, stimulates the senses more, and challenges you to discover new sides of each other.

Els Intimitijd - christelijke erotiekshop

I am Els.

The founder and owner of Intimitijd.nl
I believe that a healthy sex life is not a 'stroke of luck', but a choice. With Intimitijd I help Christian couples to throw off tension and shame and to enjoy each other as God intended. This weekend package is the culmination of years of experience, translated into a practical and loving experience for at home.

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FAQ

The package consists of 3 guides (PDF files or printed):

  • Guide for couples: 32 pages
  • Guide for her: 16 pages
  • Guide for him: 15 pages

Digital:
You can download the three guides immediately after payment.

Printed:
Delivery within 1-3 business days

It can be done in a hotel or a cottage you rent for the weekend. But it can also be done perfectly well at home. However, we do advise having the children sleep outside and turning off phones.

You set the limit yourselves. The program is designed to be accessible to everyone, with options to make it more exciting if you want to.

Certainly. The approach is loving, faithful and respectful, but we do not shy away from taboos.

Absolutely not. Think of it as maintenance for your car: you don't wait until the engine explodes before changing the oil. This weekend is great for couples who are stuck in a rut and want to reconnect, but just as good for couples who are super happy and want to embark on a new adventure together. Are you experiencing relationship problems? Then it might not be a good idea to start working on your sex life first.

No need to panic. This weekend isn't about performance or acrobatics. It's about intimacy and connection. If penetration or an orgasm doesn't work out this time (or is painful), that's no problem at all. The guides offer plenty of options for intimacy in different ways. It's actually a tool to expand your 'script'. You set the rules.

The 6 moments absolutely do not mean sex 6 times! That would be a bit too much for most couples. The moments are divided into different forms of intimacy: a good conversation, dreaming together about the future, touching each other without pressure to perform, and indeed also a few moments for physical intimacy. But: sex is never a must, you ultimately decide for yourselves what you do and do not do. It is mainly about having a weekend of attention for each other, instead of for the hustle and bustle of everyday life.

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Please note: these are currently being printed. If you order them now, they will be delivered to your home by Friday, February 20 at the latest.

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